husband being a bully constantly

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my hubby is being a bully constantly these days, and I am into tears all the time . Today he finally cracked up and said that he is having a lot of stress at work and the only job being a stay at home mum I have do is to get through the day .we are on the verge of closing a property deal and i really doubt whether I should go ahead or not.

the point here is that I have kids whose future I cant jeopardise . I work part-time and i don't earn enough to meet the needs of the family . My hubby would say things like whenever you talk shit comes out of your mouth . He would shout out aloud all the time.I really dont know what is best way out ..

I am so sorry, if you are deeply unhappy do not go through with this property deal otherwise you will be tied in. If someone is making you intensely miserable, get out. It will be really hard and challenging at first but it is worth going through 1-2 years o difficultly rather than the next 5 years of abject misery.

That is verbal and emotional abuse at the very least. If you sign up for the deal you'll find it harder to leave. Please don't go through with it.

Jesus! Awful, Awful, verbal AND emotional abuse. Do NOT close the deal, get the duck out and get your DC the fuck AWAY from this horrendous piece of shit. You must feel awful all the time. Freedom is just around the corner

Don’t go through with it. Start standing up to him. This is not ok! How old are your kids? Can you go back to work full time?

have my first LTB. I was exactly the same as you but I chose to stay because of the children. Roll on 25 yrs I was a zombie just going through the motions - cooking,cleaning, sleeping with him in between his flings and then he taught our children to join in too as i was pathetic and boring. Get out now while you still have your dignity and your children, they will adapt and grow up to be decent human beings, but they won’t if you stay with him. Don’t end up with my life it doesn’t have a happy ending. Be strong

Being abusive to your partner isn’t a work stress coping mechanism, it’s plain old abuse.

The longer you stay in a toxic environment, the sicker you get.

This is serious and hoping it will just stop is a flawed strategy that will fail.

Pull out of the property deal and end the relationship. He's abusive.

You'll be entitled to a share of any marital assets in a divorce, and he will be expected to pay child support. Get legal advice on the quiet (you may be able to find a solicitor who offers a free initial consultation). Document the abuse as far as you are able (incidents, dates). Speak to Women's Aid.