I went back. Now over for food. Help.

[mamapart]

I went back. If you see my previous post you would have seen about the abuse I have been thought with my ex partner. On my last post I said I had split with him. I got lonely and missed him so I went back. You were right. We got into an argument whilst I was drunk. (It was his night to watch baby). I ended up throwing a bottle of water at him and he threw a glass at me he had in his hand. It shattered and cut open my arm. I've had it fixed up. He got taken into custody. His mum came and picked me up the next day and got him out of jail ( I didn't want to press charges). I was weak and my family don't care. I stayed with him. We have now agreed we're not good together. He's taking me home. As I live in temporary acclimation if they see I haven't been there for a while they could kick me out. Also I've been told I could be contacted by social services. Will social services just come round or will they call me? Also I'm petrified of being alone. I'm so anxious.

social services got involved with me when my partner attacked me. They were very helpful and kind. But they did say that they would intervene if I went back to him. They put the welfare of the children first. Which is a good thing, because not all parents do.

Don't go back OP. I know someone who has gone back to her ex 10 times. Each time believing that it will get better. Even after he got violent, even after he abused her in the most horrendous ways. She would stop at nothing to be with him, (it really was the most pathetic case of "but I lurrve him") even getting pregnant in the belief that it would create a happy family. All it did was add a poor innocent child into the extremely toxic mess.

Good luck OP. Social services just want your baby to be safe. You should want the same. Being lonely? pah.

Dont worry about ss. They are there to help not to remove children from families, be open with them so you can get help. Them coming around is not bad. Team up with them, they can help you and ur kids.