Basically wondering if I should have left my ex and father of our DD.
We had been together 6 years, during this time he had sexted one girl, been lazy, refused to really show any sign of commitment or to help look after DD when she arrived. DD was an accident btw, failed contraception. The breaking point for me was messages to a woman from his old work asking her out to dinner and saying he wanted to chill with her followed by horny emojis. So I’ve left and that was 3 months a go.
He has always tried to say it was just a bit of banter with the other woman, she done it with everyone. That he knows he took me for granted and is sorry but there hasn’t ever been anyone else. That he isn’t sensitive and finds talking about emotions hard but not being with me and DD hurts him so much. And reminded me that we were close friends before we got into a relationship.
I’m just wondering did I get this so wrong, or is he trying to lure me back in. He himself says he isn’t trying to lure me back in and doesn’t want to talk and the texting as he says the more he protests the more it makes him look guilty.. true but why would you say that.