My brain is frazzled from trying to figure out what’s happened. I met C on bumble, we have had quite an intense month of dating. It’s been wonderful, he made me feel amazing, special, beautiful... you name it. We connected on so many levels where I finally thought I’d met someone who I could develop a relationship with.
It started to go weird last Saturday. I met him for dinner and drinks, we then parted company the next day, made plans to meet on Sunday as he was going away on business Monday to Wednesday. He needed to go to work but he said text me when you get home and call me later. I text he responded and said he was en route to a party in the afternoon he was going to. I called that evening he didn’t pick up, called again couple of hours later still didn’t pick up. I had that awful anxiety feeling that this wasnt right. Later I text but it didn’t go through, called and went to voicemail. Long story short he eventually got in contact saying he’d smashed his phone and couldnt take calls and had to get a new handset. Later that morning I text again about meeting up... he didn’t respond and I didn’t hear a peep out of him until Midnight on the Tuesday where he apologised for going AWOL but had some some business to take care of and wanted to meet up upon return from his business trip. All good.
We text on and off during Wednesday then in the evening I asked when was he back in the uk, he said he’s just landed, we a lovely text conversation but I said call me when you get home, he said ok baby, I’ve missed you. Anyway... he didn’t call and since then I’ve called he hasn’t picked up and sent two texts both have been ignore.
So there we have it... I’m totally confused... how can someone say they miss you only to disappear again within two hours of that conversation. I know he’s alive as he’s been online.
If anyone has an ideas, please let me know as I am baffled ....