Don’t no what to do am heartbroken

[Lobster84]

So I’ve posted on here a while ago about being in a abusive relationship I was heartbroken back then about how things went between me and my ex well fast forward to today and my life has completely been ripped apart I found out 3 weeks ago after all my suspicions about him cheating on me and that was a big reason for the break up only to find that he was in fact cheating and the woman has had a baby by him 💔 am heartbroken I’ve literally cried for 3 weeks straight we do have a child together which he obviously wasn’t thinking about. I just can’t get my head round the whole situation he’s the one who cut contact with me after I found out no explanation no sorry no nothing,ino most people will say I’ve dogged a bullit and in many ways I have am just so sad I don’t no what to do two days prior from finding out he was on the phone telling me how much he loved me and couldn’t live without me etc my whole worlds been ripped apart ino I have to be strong for my children but at this moment in time I can’t be am just so lost in everything people say the pain will go and it will get easier! Just really don’t feel strong enough don’t think I will ever get over this,am gutted because even after everything he done that’s happened between us I still love this man 😭

So sorry to hear you've been through such a shock- hugs xxx Hang on in there, things will get better. xx

You will get over it in time. You will realise what a shit he is and wonder why you even wasted a second on him! Just keep telling yourself you are better without him and can do a lot better than be with a loser like him.

You have dodged a big bullet and he's done you a huge favour because you'd of never walked away otherwise - speaking from experience.
The best thing you can do is show him what the hell hes lost !! Don't sit crying - as hard as it may be. Paint a face on and go do things with your child and friends. Go have a night out as a single lady an show yourself what you've been missing an what the big wide world has to offer. You'd be surprised !
Happiness is the worst revenge. Please just go focus on how to better you.
Sounds silly but I felt like this so I went and got a new hair style. Lashes done and a sprey tan an a new outfit. Never looked back since ! I felt like me and washed all that old miserable bad away! Xx