Ive met a lovely guy and we get on really well when we see eachother, the problem is we never seem to have quality time together. We've been to the cinema once and had a few restaurant dates but that's it, we've never had a family day out together. He's told me he has to work 10-14 hour shifts every day (usually 7 days a week). He's sleeping in most mornings and going into work lunch times and sometimes he is taking the full day off as he's "burnt out", when I ask him if he can take a day off over the weekend he says he has to work as he has no choice but then tells me its not compulsory. He has kids who he never gets to spend time with and me and his ex wife have been pushing him to take time off to see his kids but he's just not budging at all.
We have things planned for the future, holidays booked and paid for etc but I just don't know if I can carry on like this. I feel like I'm on my own and just getting on with my own life until he's able to see me. I've tried to talk to him and he keeps telling me I sound like a broken record and we keep going over the same things but we're not getting anywhere.
I also work full time but have evenings and weekends off which I tend to spend on my own or waiting for him to get out of work. Not sure if I need to be patient and wait for him to work things out or cut my losses and loose someone I genuinely like.