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omg12345help · 27/09/2019 07:42

So basically I have been with my bf 2 years....I have 2 children he has none.

Our relationship has not been great but that another story but basically I have now come to realise that I never want anymore children!

How the hell do I tell him this?

He's not sure he even wants kids is what he says but then some things he says makes me think otherwise!

I know I have to tell him as it's not fair on him but how? 😞

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magoria · 27/09/2019 07:57

Why do you even want a relationship that isn't great let alone talk about DC!

Next time he says something say it was nice but I am glad that is done an I won't be doing it again.

Idontwanttotalk · 27/09/2019 08:17

You're in the wrong relationship if you've only been together 2 years and your relationship hasn't been great.

Take precautions to make sure you can't get pregnant. If you've talked about having kids and he isn't sure he wants them, I would take him at his word. He may not want them because he can see what it is like with you having two already.

Don't make such a big deal of it. Just tell him. I presume he didn't feel it unfair on you when he said he wasn't sure he wants kids.

hellsbellsmelons · 27/09/2019 08:40

Why are you with him?
What is not 'great' about your relationship?
This really is simple.
'DP, I've thought long and hard about this and I will never want more children. Our relationship is not great so we should end this and you can move on with your life'
Job done!!!

RoseLillian · 27/09/2019 21:03

Tell him ASAP and be straight. If he does want children he has the right to know the sooner the better, that way you can both move on.

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