My younger sibling, who is very difficult in adulthood, was very troubled as a child and teenager and non contact with most of the family behaved strangely towards me as a child.
I’ve doubted myself terribly and feel like a failure as our relationship has broken down (again) but I now wonder if she may have have been abused.
I don’t know how to describe this sensitively but she touched me intimately when we were young and used a word to describe it that I’ve never heard before or since.
If this abuse happened I knew nothing of it, we are estranged currently but this could explain a lot if true. Not sure if knowing this would lead to the possibility of a healthy sibling relationship that I crave.
Is there anything that I can do or say to help in anyway, this sibling seems to be happy not liking me