14 years ago to the day, almost the hour. I left an abusive, violent situation. I had prewritten a suicide letter.
I had two young DD, no money and a family I was low to no contact with.
14 years later. I have a wonderful, uncomplicated life compared to then, something I would have to never dreamed of. My youngest is in an apprenticeship, my eldest final year of a degree, a supportive dp, a job I love and a home of my own. A loving supportive extended family.
Im telling you this to acknowledge the anniversary and hopefully, hopefully let you know that it can be done.
If you are stuck in a violent relationship, if you are scared to leave because of what might happen.
You can leave, you can change it. I thought for years I was so weak and I was, in so many ways. You can do this. You will do this.
Reach out, tell someone. If I can do it, and I was so weak, then you can too. Do it!!