Am I Overreacting?

[Rainbowandzippy]

I met someone through online dating. I usually try to get to know someone before the physical side of things develop but things moved quicker than I intended. I only saw him for about a month and then he dumped me.

I think he is probably seeing someone else now and I feel so hurt and stupid. I thought he liked me. We had things in common and got on well. Am I overreacting?

I'm probably feeling sorry for myself but relationships seem to elude me.

You had sex with him, he dumped you. If its any consolation, i think these One Night Bandits are generally rubbish at sex, and tend to run away before women can realise just how unimaginative they are in bed.

Not all men are like this. Most arent, in fact. Keep going, and dont be pushed into doing anything you dont want to!

Thanks for your reply and advice . I wasn't pushed into anything but hey you live and learn

OP - it’s only been a month that you saw each other.
There is no reason to feel stupid.
This has nothing to do with how quickly you had sex. Makes no difference if it’s date 1, or 5, or 10.
Relationships work this way - you meet, start to get to know each other and then see how it goes.
And often one or the other person decides it’s not working for them.
It’s unpleasant, but it’s normal.
Just keep dating and you may meet someone who fits you better.

Thanks for your reply. Hopefully I will move on and date again soon