About three months ago a friend who I've not seen for 19 years got back in touch with me. We both dated for a short time whilst he was in the country as now lives in Germany. Fast forward to three months ago we stared messaging each other, very flirty texts and then he surprised me with a weekend away which was amazing. He lives with his two children and girlfriend and tells me they've not had sex for over a year. We have become very attracted to each other and he's told me this week he loves me. He asked me tonight was there a word for what we do, affair? Friendship? Long term friend? It's made me think tonight that's what it is, friendship with sex. Should I stop what's going on now or continue? A couple of weeks ago his girlfriend of 12 years saw his phone with a message for me. She confronted him and he said he had feelings for me and that it was important to have communication with me. The girlfriend said it was ok to continue as long as no sex took place. Should I stop this now or carry on with this love affair? Will I get hurt when he decides to end it? He's due to fly here next week telling his girlfriend he's away on business. Would be grateful for any advise. Thank
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