my daughter is 20 and has had a few short term relationships recently, which have left her feeling rejected. She thinks she's just a lovely, caring girlfriend (which I'd agree with, she's got a huge heart and is just lovely) but ends up being dumped by all of them. She cant understand why. They dump her by text with no real explanation, so she feels confused and rejected. Afterwards she has a powerful need to try to get back together with them or to figure out why they dumped her. In her eyes, the relationship is perfect and she just cant get her head around the fact that she's been dumped. For her, there's no closure. She needs to know why. I've told her that she might never know or get a truthful answer and that it's best to move on and try to put them out of her mind. She struggles with this. There's a sense of real anger that they've walked away from what she saw as a good relationship. I think it's self defeating that she blames herself when the relationship ends. It's causing her a great deal of anxiety. She hates being single. She wants to be in a relationship, but they never last long. I think she needs to learn to be happy alone. Even when she's in a relationship she gets very jealous if she's not the centre of their world. She keeps asking for advice and wants me to tell her how to deal with the depression and anger she feels when they dump her, but I really haven't got a clue! I'd love to know what you think.