Not sure what to think

[sunshine1345]

Been dating a guy for almost 9 months now. We get on well, chat all the time (on the phone and over text). The only problem is I just don't feel like he's interested in seeing much of me. We usually see each other once a week and this always involves sex. I'm starting to question whether this is all it is for him. He tells me it's not but I just don't feel like it's going anywhere now. Is it Normal for him to only want to see me once a week but chat constantly on the phone? We both live with parents at the moment which makes it hard as it's not like we can just pop round and watch a film etc but surely he should want more than this if he does genuinely like me as much as he says? Or am I just being a needy woman?! Honest answers please!

How long have you been seeing each other?

Why can’t you pop round to each other’s homes and watch a film? I mean, obviously not snog on the sofa, but have dinner with your families and spend some time with him? Why can’t you go out for the day? Go on double dates with friends etc? Invite him round for family bbqs etc.

If you try all of this and he resists, then you’re right; he likes having sex with you and being free the rest of the week. But if you don’t tell him what you want, then things will never change.

Why can't he come round and spend time with you and your family or vice versa? TBH I think if you/he don't want to do that occasionally it's a bit of a red flag. Some relationships just run their course!

Tbh I don't really feel comfortable inviting him round to sit with my parents yet. It's been 9 months (sounds like a long time but when you see each other once a week it's actually not). I just don't know whether I should bring it up or just see how things go. At the same time I don't want to waste anymore time if that is the case!