Just wondering if anyone has ever ended a relationship and then gotten back together months or years after?
I was in a LDR for almost a year and just recently my ex ended it over the distance which he always assured me was not a problem at all and having a million conversations about how we'd make it work.
He claims it's the distance and his work; it's very unpredictable and he gets moved around the country he lives in on very short notice so that would've eventually gotten in the way of seeing each other. He assured me it's not me (of course it's me) and keeps saying it's just that and that if I lived closer it would've probably been different.
There is a possibility to me moving to his country (not related to him) within the next year or so. This is something that I had already thought about as it's for my education.
Our last conversation I said I wish we could meet again one day under different circumstances and he said he wished the same and was sorry it didn't go the way it should have.
So I'm just wondering, I know it's stupid and I'm meant to move on and what not but have any of you ever been in a similar situation? Or just been able to rekindle something years later? Official break up was about 5 months ago and we are both mid 20s if that matters.
I just honestly really pictured my life with him, I've tried dating and seeing other people but even after a few months I keep comparing them to him and just never go on the second date. I miss him all the time and he says he does too (yes if he truly loved me he'd come back, I know) but then again I'm wondering if maybe everything he said actually is true. He struggles a lot with anxiety, depression and just mental health in general; he never got nasty over the break up and has been very supportive of how difficult it has been for me