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Should I stay if marriage isn’t on the cards

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Cosytoes111 · 21/09/2019 09:44

Me and dp have been together about 3 years and I’m pregnant with our first child together.

It was mentioned in a casual discussion that he wasn’t ever really wanting to get married as he didn’t see the point.

I do want to get married. Like I have always thought I would be planning my wedding day one day and have my kids there and have my dad walk me down the isle and all the rest of it.

I told him I always thought I would get married and it is something that I want to do and he said well maybe one day. But can tell he just said it to close the discussion.

Am I being over dramatic to think maybe I should think about leaving if we both clearly want different things out of life? Or just accept that you don’t always get what you want in life and settle for the great relationship I have with my dp but with no marriage.

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Thehop · 21/09/2019 19:55

He’s been honest at least. You can find someone who has the same aims as you.

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