I suspect my bf has someone else

[Breadandbutterjam]

I have suspicions that I am not the only girlfriend my bf has but I have no way of finding out. He has two best friends who I've met & they've said nothing. He house shares with an old lady, so he says I can't go and see where he lives. What got me suspicious is that I saw his facebook (all ok) & now all of a sudden he's hidden it. My spidee senses tell me something's up but I can't prove it. I don't want to be messed around by someone on the make.

Regardless if you're rigbtnor not, he isn't showing you reasons to trust him. You're worth more than that. Living with constant anxiety and suspicion is a relationship killer anyway.
I'd speak to him directly and see what his reaction is. He should (at the very least) show you his home.

You don't need absolute proof, what you have is more than enough :

• You can't go to his house for a bullshit reason
• he's hidden his Facebook from you.

Obviously lying shitbag, so dump him already.

If you've been seeing him for a short time , perhaps he's of the sort that will date several people until he decides to be exclusive.
This obviously doesn't work for you, so I'd walk away now. Or do you feel you can just ask if he is seeing other people ? If you think he is lying, then again, leave.

What's even the point?
Best case scenario, he's a weirdo, worst case he's a cheat ... and a weirdo.

There are so, so, so many completely average single men out there. Go get one of those - it's an upgrade from this one.

He house shares with an old lady so I can't go there...have you ever MET an old lady? They are usually full of 'when are you getting a girlfriend, can I meet her, I'll cook you meatballs...' It's the worst excuse for 'I can't go there' I've ever heard!

How long have you been with him? Do you even know where he lives?

How long have you been with him? It’s normal now for people to date around until you get serious especially if you met online

Why would house sharing mean he can't have people over? He's a liar.

My spidee senses tell me something's up but I can't prove it.

Why do you need to prove it? He’s shutting you out of parts of his life, so how will this ever develop into something long term, where openness and honesty is pretty essential? Just phone him, say ‘you won’t let me come to your home and you’ve hidden your social media. I’m a grown up, I haven’t got the time or patience to fuck about with someone who isn’t being completely open and honest with me’ then walk away.

How old is he and how long have you been going out?