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I don’t know what to do about my relationship!

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PositiveVibes12 · 19/09/2019 16:53

I don’t even know what I’m asking really apart from opinions and advice as I feel alone.
I’ve been with my DP for 7 years, 2 year old DS and due to get married in May.
We have always bickered and argued frequently but lately it’s been much more.
He’s always making jokes and snide remarks about the lack of sex, and he seems to overreact to everything we can’t have a debate without it turning into name calling or telling me to leave or he’s calling off the wedding.
I’m aware I aren’t perfect and I can be nasty and miserable but I can’t say anything without it turning into an argument, it’s like he goades me for one sometimes and when I react it’s my fault. The latest one was about him not wanting DS to have dummies and me saying I’m still going to give him them when he’s tired or upset.
I don’t know what to do. I’m almost 31 and I’ve been staying at my parents for the past week! Everyone around me is so happy and getting married and I’ve never been so unhappy.

OP posts:
makingwavesagain · 19/09/2019 17:05

Sounds like a hard situation to be in. Perhaps he’s just an arse and calling the wedding off is a good idea.

How do you feel when you are at your parents? It could be the situation making you miserable rather than you just being a miserable person!

Shoxfordian · 19/09/2019 17:07

Don't marry him
Think how happy you could be without his shit

PositiveVibez · 19/09/2019 17:24

You both sound absolutely miserable. You know you can't get married. Do you want a lifetime of this? Do you want your child growing up in this toxic environment?

Please break free and the happiness you see around you, can be yours OP 💐

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