Husband and I still living together. He’s been treating me like shit for a long time and I’ve tolerated it. I called time a few weeks ago because he’s just so unreasonable and selfish and my self respect was on the floor. Leading up to this he’s been behaving oddly - working loads, exercising loads, new hair cut, new skin care regime (he’s never had one in the decades I’ve known him), no care or consideration towards me. Still being a good dad though. I’ve been suspicious but I genuinely don’t think he has time for a full blown affair. If anything was going on it’d be an emotional affair with a colleague. He would NEVER admit it though. He lost one of his is parents at the beginning of the year after a long illness so I think he’s grieving and, in part, the excessive exercise and work is a response to this loss and the grief. But my goodness you’d never know he was grieving from the outside looking in. When I called time on our marriage he was pretty much immediately agreeable; His mood has appeared completely normal, or actually a little elated. He’s had a bounce in his step for a while. Meanwhile I’m falling apart. Mood all over the place but mostly really sad. How the fk do I survive this - living together but apart? At the moment he refuses to discuss ANYTHING until we see our marriage counsellor which is weeks away. He’s literally dropped me out of his life and he doesn’t seem phased. Any tips would really be appreciated.