Phone password...

[idrivememad]

Ok .... permission to kick my ass but don't over do it...
It's all a jumble so good luck, but your thoughts may help..

1. Last week I was hugely emotionally charged due to Period coming some months I'm worse than others a week before,but I held it together well and dp was unaware but I struggle big time some months, think the worst about everything... but I'm aware and I deal with these months... I came on 2 days late, one day of dark blood and now nothing... god knows where that's gone... however last week..
2. big investigation at work, I was ask to do a statement (which I didn't want to do but because my name was given I had to) 8 others also came forward and that person resigned today.. glad to see them gone but sad it had to come to that and that person clearly needs help in bullying. I've felt very tearful all day as I don't like being involved in this. Now for the confusing bit. I think my partner is going to propose, he disappeared last weekend and said he couldn't say where he was going but I'll find out soon .. we are going away next weekend he's planned it all and we are both excited. I've had little involvement with the planning, he's done it all. Nothing has changed between us we are as loving as ever if not more so. So fingers crossed.

Here's for the title, he got a new phone , and he set it up this week, I don't go on his phone but knew his passcode as he'd just type it in in front of me , but I have noticed he has changed it but when he puts it in he holds his hand over the side of the phone if you know what I mean so it's hard to see the sequence.

'Why are you thinking of accepting a proposal if you don't trust him' I have no reason not to trust him but what's the hand all about... I don't want to say anything because I'll sound like a fool, he don't hide it and messages come up static on his screen so I have no reason..

Have I just had a shit week with the above and am I just being a prat?

Have you not thought he's using his hand to cover the screen as it could be something to do with the possible "proposal" ?

Hadn't thought of that 😂

How long did he disappear for?

About 2hrs

But why are you trying to find out his passcode?

I would never give my passcode to a partner nor expect to know theirs, I'm allowed some space that is just mine, and my phone is it. I think of it like a diary with a lock. No matter how close you are, most people wouldn't let a partner read their diary, nor expect to read theirs.
If it looks like he's going to propose then it's likely that there's information about that on his phone and he's not wanting to spoilt the surprise. Of course there could be a dodgy reason for it, but keeping his phone private wouldn't be a big red flag for me personally.

I'm not trying to find it out I have just noticed he's changed it and wonder why..

I immediately thought it was because of the holiday /possible proposal planning.
Relax, see how the hol goes and if you're still suspicious after that (if there is nothing major he's planned) then go from there
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I'm not going to ask questions about the password. But if you are sure theres a proposal coming,then I still stick by what I said :)

Thank you all... I think maybe I'm just having a moment it's been one hell of a week last week and I think I'm just having a moment of hmmm I'll keep u posted x

Maybe the pass code has to be longer on the new phone? Or he's changed it to stop you being able to see the surprise he's planning.

It's still 6 digits, maybe it is because of that but I've never snooped at his phone , I want to now tho 😂