I posted a while ago regarding the lack of sex or intimacy in my relationship(can't remember my username at the time). We have 3 kids one of them not long turned 1 and we both work shifts so rarely see each other for any length of time.
At the time of my last post everyone advised me to talk to him, which I have. We've spoken about a lot of things and we both agree there is no issues in the relationship and we are just tired as one always does drop offs in the morning, a bit of housework then out to Work and the other comes home from work collects the kids and does dinner and bedtime so we are both busy all day from early till late at night. We do obviously get days off each week but these rarely fall so we are both off.
Since we have spoke we are making more effort to kiss cuddle, chat about our days at night before bed and things are generally good but there is still very little sex.
We've both agreed that one of us, probably me (my choice I don't want to do shift work anymore) will get another job/reduce hours and things will get better when we aren't trying to juggle so much each day but I worry that this could take a while and then we will be used to no sex and even when we have the time/energy it just won't happen.
Basically I'm wondering if this has happened to anyone else, did you get your sex life back? If so how long did it take?