I recently posted under a different name about the anxiety I was having about the relationship with my partner. Well the anxiety was out of control the last few weeks, I just knew something was up, nothing obvious but I just knew, call it a gut instinct I guess. I know him and his behaviours.
Well last night out the blue he ended it said he hasn't been happy for weeks..
Obviously I was absolutely devastated but also relieved to realise I wasn't going insane.
The problem I have now is that he is living in my flat, and can not afford to move out until the end of the month or in his words 'I've paid until the end of the month.' I did originally say that he could stay until then,wouldn't be easy but he's living in a city he's not from without a support network, but tonight he has come home drunk and started being verbally abusive at this point I told him he had a week to sort himself out and I want him gone.
He then came into the room I'm in and started to call me a cunt and how all this is my fault and I'm a horrible person for making him homeless, I then dropped it down to a day he has to leave, for context we both gave up drinking two months ago as it was becoming a problem with violent arguments, his attitude to me changed about a month after as in felt distant.
Would I be the biggest cunt in the world if I stuck to my guns and made him leave tomorrow. I don't want the next two weeks to be him getting drunk coming home and verbally abusing me