For sometime now I have questioned if I am doing the right thing sticking with my husband of 17 years but this week thibgs have really come to a head. I am working all the hours possible whilst he sticks to thirty even though he knows we have three children, a new house to pay for carpets for and he doesn't even help in the house which is laughable given that he is a cleaner as a job. I literally do everything right down to physically paying the bills. I feel so down and so completely overwhelmed. If I end it the youngest child will really take it hard and yet I can't imagine going on like this for much longer