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How can I get out safely?

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UnsureMama593 · 13/09/2019 19:07

Hello everyone who comes to read this. Currently living in ex partners mothers house with said mother, ex partner and DS. This is the end of an emotionally abusive relationship (last December I was physically attacked and moved out - we have since tried to work things out and try again) he is very controlling and manipulative and it is getting worse. When we split in the past we have always co parented DS sharing the week evenly. I moved back to my mothers 10 minutes walk away. Now he wants me to leave the house as he feels the relationship ended due to my actions, but thinks I should still wake up every morning at 6am to come to his and get DS ready for school and leave at 6pm when he returns from work. I still want us to co parent as we did before in a way that works the best for all of us, I just want to make it as unstressful as possible especially for DS. However staying under this roof is not helping the situation, for either of us to move on and is 100% no good for DS but ex partner refuses to see it this way and instead feels like any time he has away from DS means I have taken him away. Neither of us speak to his mother so the atmosphere in the house is just awful. So my question to you is, how do I leave (with DS) in the easiest way possible and start proceedings for a childcare arrangement? If anyone has gone through similar I'd love to hear what happened? Thank you Smile

OP posts:
RandomMess · 30/09/2019 22:28

That is no surprise I'm afraid it was all about controlling you not about having a relationship with DS.

Thanks
Interestedwoman · 30/09/2019 22:33

He'll change his tune. Well done for leaving! xx

hittheroadjack1 · 30/09/2019 23:09

Well done.

Do not go back and get the other half of your ds things. You will get drawn into all this again,

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