To Nicola
I am sure you must have had your suspicions. Felt very insecure about the sexy women your husband follows on Instagram. I'm sure he's told you they added him, they are just adding people to boost likes he doesn't every talk to them etc. Has no interest in others it's you who comes home to.
I'm sure when he works away he's told you he spends a lovely evening in the hotel, watching some tv. Maybe popping out for a drink. Obviously doesn't tell you about the other women he meets up with. Who until recently had no idea you existed. I'm sure you've seen him constantly checking his phone. Telling you it's just work/friends etc and he'd never cheat on you. After all he sings your praises and posts loads of pictures of you and your two boys all over Facebook. He dotes on you right? He even manages your business.
You deserve better. Trust your instincts. Check that Instagram account. Check those private messages. Get those answers and get out. We will all be here for you