narcissist boyfriend

[Bradleyb2014]

hey , has anyone had a partner that was a narricisst? i am now on my second one !! been together for two years , dont live together or anythinf (thank god ) todays actions pushed me over the edge , so i had a paranoid momenr last night i apoligshed etc however he put me threw the narc shite ...... but the final straw for me was he got my moblie cut off (he got the contract via his business for my birthday ) i knew it was only a matter of time..... you know they like the control ...... that just pushed me today to see what a nasty bit of rubbish i was dealing with ..... however he now cant contact me (i have blocked him every other way ) hes had the phone cut off so hes forcused the no contact ..... Will he be kicking himself for this ? now he cant wind me up ? lol kinda advise / venting post x

If you've been in two relationships with narcissistic men and those relationships have been long ones then I think you need to look at why you're choosing this type of guy,

I agree with @noego

Why do you care if he is kicking himself? keep him blocked and avoid narcissistic men in future.

could you get your own phone with a contract so he can't control it.

Sort out a new contract for yourself and keep up the no contact. If you are curious about how he's coping don't be tempted to make contact. Remind yourself of his narc behaviours and stop yourself. He may make contact or reappear and you would do well to have rehearsed a short but unemotional response telling him it's over and not to contact you again. Don't use any words like 'I'm sorry' or make reference to anything else he can latch onto (like your feelings or his behaviour) as he will try to start a conversation to get you wound back in. You'll end up in the same place otherwise and there won't be too much to 'LOL' about!