Do excuse the long post.
My husband and i have had a pretty up and down marriage. We've been together 12.5 years and married 5 years with two beautiful young children. Since we've been married my husband has shown a side of himself i dont like. He's confrontational, outspoken and gets angry at the drop of a hat. Over the years he's grown to dislike my parents ans my family in general. He thinks they are "stuck up their own arses" with too much money and that they're interfering "c*s" because they like to give advice, help financially with the kids etc. What he says breaks my heart and hurts my feelings. There was a huge row a few weeks before we got married which resulted in him telling my dad to f**k off and he nearly punched him which my mother tried to stop. Since then relations between my husband and my dad have been very bumpy. At the moment he doesn't want to speak to my parents because they had s falling out over brexit (differing opinions). I now have to do things separately with my parents and the kids as my husband hates being around them which puts enormous stress on me. We had a huge row tonight because he got pissed off that i spent the afternoon with my mum and dad rather tham him. Its now resulted in us not talking. I said I'd leave him some dinner and he said he wouldn't eat it so just tnrow it and he'd make himself something instead. His family aren't the easisst to get on with and they've caused problems in my family too but i try my best yo get along with them. My husband, on the other hand, just says what he thinks about my family and doesn't seem to care how that makes me feel. He said he wanted to "have a scrap" with my parents tonight just because he was pissed off i spent the afternoon with them. He thinks i should get a hobby instead of seeing them all the time. I only have a very small family so feel like i like to see them regularly to keep that connection. Am i in the wrong here? Advice would be gratefully received.