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what happened to the poster who was expecting 6th child

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pusspuss9 · 08/09/2019 16:15

does anybody know how the poster that was expecting 6th child and whose husband left her is getting on? I can't remember the title of the thread but I was wondering how she's getting on.

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beenwhereyouare · 08/09/2019 16:38

She had the baby, a little girl she named Nova-belle. There was some question as to whether the husband would come for the delivery, but I think her sister was with her instead. He was still with the OW, I think.
I don't think there were further updates, but people would love to know how you're doing, @inthedarkx .

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3523511-husband-demanding-an-abortion?pg=6&order=

inthedarkx · 08/09/2019 17:06

This is so kind this thread. I'm that poster! Thank for thinking about me 😊 I had my baby 5 weeks early which I expected to have her early as doctors said I would. I named her Nova-Brianne, I was gonna calm her nova belle but realised belle would clash with her surname and Brianne is the female version of my grandads name ( he was called Brian) and he meant a lot to me do wanted his name on hers.
My husband never came to the birth, Told me its not a 'novelty' as it's our 6th which makes him even more evil as he was at his new gfs birth. My sister was there and she left work early hours in the morning to be there.
I'm doing ok managing all 6 children, I've just had a few difficulties getting him to stick to set times to see the kids as he gives me 1-2 days notice on when he's coming and this is dependant on his life. He wants to come when he wants. Even if it's 8 in the evening. Every Saturday he has off work he spends with his gf or to do his own thing. But I've cut contact for the time being until he can give me set days because our lives have been upside down xx

tinatsarina · 08/09/2019 17:16

Glad to hear your doing well. And that your sister was there with you. I'm sure the visitation is annoying as with 6 kids you want to be as organised as you can and him dropping in when he wants doesn't help.

pusspuss9 · 08/09/2019 17:18

so glad you're managing OK in the dark. I've thought about you a lot and wondered how you're doing.

Thank you also ''been where you are for replying.

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beenwhereyouare · 08/09/2019 17:40

pusspuss9, I'm glad you asked because I really wondered what happened. I would never have thought to start a new thread.

@inthedarkx, I love Nova-Brianne even more. Sorry your ex is still being...well...him, but I'm glad you're doing well and standing up to him. You sound so much stronger and sure of yourself than your initial post.

If you would, why not update on your own thread? Posters and watchers would want to hear from you. I sincerely hope your life continues to improve, and I hope you'll check in again. x

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