I'll try and keep this short...the past 12 months DH mood swings are getting worse. We have had a lot to deal with over the past 12 months - DC being born (traumatic birth for me which I am still recovering from!) new start up business for me, and we have built a new house and moved into it. DH has his own business, I am at home all day with DC and then have to go out to work when he comes back. This results in either eating very late at night or DH moaning he is eating on his own. He has always been the cook and I will occasionally do so but I am rubbish at it and don't like it! DH has recently started to moan that I am not pulling my weight around the house when "I am at home all day with DC" yet when he has DC he always comments on how hard it is to do anything as you are always entertaining:watching DC. I must add I do tidy up/washing etc etc...just rarely cook the dinner!
We have had a lot of arguments recently and his attitude is very negative; he has twice said to call quits on the marriage but then the next day it's as if nothing has happened or been said!! He now has turned on my DM and has said he doesn't like what she says or he negative attitude towards people (my DM does say what she thinks but also she has done a lot for us and at the end of the day is still my DM I am not going to fall out with her for him)
I am finding myself pulling myself away from him and not wanting to be around him...we have been together 14years and the past 2 years I feel there is just nothing there anymore.
I want to try to get our marriage back on track but I just don't know where to start...how do I change his negative attitude? His thinking that I would be nowhere without him (as he earns more than me!) and how do I get him to be civil to my DM!!