Would you end your marriage “for no reason”?

[HarryHarry]

Well, not for no reason. For lots of small reasons that seem trivial and insignificant on their own but together indicate that your husband just doesn’t love you as much as you need/want/deserve? Even though he’s a good husband and father in every other way, and probably nowhere near as bad as your friends’ husbands?

Interested in hearing other people’s experiences. (My own is quite long and complicated so I need time to figure out how to explain it before I post about it).

HarryHarry sometimes I think I did leave for no real reason, some days I regret it. Other days I know it was because I needed to to be happier. But I am scared for the future.

No, not for no reason. But yes for lots of little reasons. Yes if I was enduringly unhappy , and yes if I had lost respect / liking / hope for the future...

No, I'd try and work on it. I left for a very big reason and it has given me a lot of perspective.

If he is a father, presumably to children you both have together whose lives would be seriously disrupted by a divorce, no.

You have to try harder for their sakes.

Fine to divorce for no reason at all IF you don't have kids. It is too late now to be selfish.