Hello, i am posting because I am at my wits end. I have two dc and live with their dad who, quite frankly i hate. Over the years i have asked him to leave and he always refuses. He used to promise to change and now just insults me. He is aggressive and an absolute numpty with money. I am absolutely sick of him. The final straw was him not giving me his share for the bills (again) and even though i am on mat leave. I cant afford to keep covering his share of the bills as in the past.
He is aggressive to my son who whilst challenging is a lovely but VERY anxious and his horrible dad is a big factor.
I really hate this man but he won't leave. Quite frankly, i think the only way i can get away is if i leave the city and my friends. The only thing that stops me is my ds's school. Its brilliant and they have gone above and beyond to address his (diagnosed) behavioural issues in a way i know not all schools can / will.
I am at my wits end. This man has brought nothing positive to my life but my naivety over the years let me believe that under all of it there was a good person trying to get out - there really isnt. I hate him.
Any advice would be appreciated.