Hi Ladies, I recently started a new relationship. He was full on from the word go and very attractive.
He kept visiting me and texting how much he was falling for me and told me how lucky he was to have met me.
He asked me to factor him into my life and said he had completely fallen for me.
I didn’t reciprocate but found him massively attractive and started falling for him in a big way. He talked constantly about our life together.
Then.. he asked me to purchase something on EBay for him as he ‘didn’t have an account.’
It wasn’t thousands of pounds and, although I felt he understood I am a single mum, I trusted him.
He then withdrew from the relationship very quickly, stating that he had to move hundreds of miles away to care for a family member.
Unfortunately, he left his location on on his apps and has never left his original area. He still messaged me telling me things had got ‘even worse’ and that he missed me.
I asked him to transfer the money to my account a week ago but he hasn’t done it.
He has, in my opinion, stolen food off our table essentially.
Why would someone behave in this way? Why would someone who is seemingly so into me ‘switch off’ and ghost me for apparently money issues?
I have tried to convey understanding but he has lied about not being at home.
He owes me money and doesn’t give a damn about my circumstances with me being alone with a little one and struggling financially.