I'm not sure if I'm overreacting to this but, for a few months my OH has been doing less and less around the home. Well he never really did that much to begin with, but now he does nothing. So I got a little fed up and started leaving just his plate on the side for him to wash himself. (Yes i did ask not tell). well we have just ended up having words regarding the subject of him pulling his weight for him to say ..... why should i being doing things when the kids dont.. erm maybe because your a 40 year old man. I will admit that my children 12, 11 and 9 do not have set chores but if I ask them they do so, and they also like to help with cooking etc.
Am i overreacting? Or was his response really childish ?