If you’ve had marriage problems and almost split up, have you been able to get things back on track? How did you do that? I’m really struggling to feel anything apart from distaste and distrust and distance for my OH. No cheating involved but the last few years have been full of arguing and we almost split up several times. The issue for me is that when we argue he says vile things about my looks and my character in contrast to me arguing about the specific problem we are trying to sort. He’s also done the “not in love with you anymore” thing and then changed his mind. How do you get over thatstuff?