Question of cheating

[Pavonina]

My boyfriend said he didn't sleep with a girl but did have a shower with her. I said he cheated. He said he didn't. What do you think?

The insult to your intelligence is almost as bad as what he's clearly done.

Ladies (dare I assume it’s all the ladies that have responded) you have been marvellous for the soul!! Sometimes it’s so easy to doubt yourself when you are so close to the horrors in front of you. Sometimes you need the kindness of strangers to steer you back on to the stronger path!! Thank you, one and all!! Xxx

Get rid of the excess baggage. You don’t need a liar and cheat.

@Walnutwhipster - nailed it. It really is and I think I would be as mad at that!! There's some pretty shocking stuff on here at times but I genuinely can't get over the fact he thinks that's plausible and you will buy it. He must think you came down in the last....

Sorry, didnt mean to be flippant, I appreciate this is your life in upheaval but I'm so disgusted at the lie on tour behalf. Look after yourself xx

Wow, I hope you get rid of the evil, lying shit! What a liar. Keep strong!!

Bless you OP.
This must horrible.
Please do look after yourself.
Put yourself first for now and get through this initial phase.
The shock will wear off and the adrenalin will not be there to keep you going.
He's a gobshite.
Do you have a friend or family member you can confide in?
Some who won't judge you, no matter what you decide?
Because you need some real life love and support right now so reach out.

That's a good one.

I've never cheated on a girl and I like to think it's to do with being a fine upstanding person. But if I'm honest it's probably about 70% that, 20% fearing my mum tearing me a new one if she found out, and 10% a crippling fear that I'd come up with a terrible excuse if I was found out.

But I'm 100% sure I'd have come up with something better than your hopefully-soon-to-be-ex.