woman, mid 50s, not currently working but has in the past, married for 25 years, DH discouraging her from applying for a (part time) job. DH semi-retired. No financial worries. 1 child still living at home, mid GCSEs. He hasn't proven himself to be an honourable husband - has history of at least 1 affair when their DC was much younger.
His reasons are that she'd have to factor in costs of petrol, parking, dog walker to see if it'll be worthwhile. - also mentioned her responsibility is the home. Basically very negative, not encouraging and saying there's no need for her to work.
She says she's bored and lonely and although she persues a hobby, she needs more and some financial independence.
I've told her that all the negatives he has mentioned can be overcome.
She will be foolish not to.
What else can I advise her?