Is it normal?

[Jasmine1002]

My partner has got a new job and since he started we see each other one night a week, and cross paths on a morning when hes getting home and I'm going to work. Unless it's a weekend then I see him when he gets home as I'm home too. Theres been a few times now that I have noticed certain "stains" on the bedding, is it normal for me to be a little pissed off at that? I completely understand that he has needs but so do I, I want sex too but dont take matters into my own hands so to speak. Am I been stupid?

Hand him a box of tissues or tell him to change the bed covers. Filthy animal.

Do you mean, you don’t want him to masturbate when he’s not with you, and you don’t either?
Or is it the stains you’re bothered about?

Talk to him.

You'll get a lot of responses here saying him masturbating is his business.

A quickie in the morning or evening does wonders

Masturbating is normal and fine, but leaving a mess on the bed sheets is just grim and not on. It's like saying leaving skidmarks in the toilet is OK, you clean up after yourself!

I want sex too but dont take matters into my own hands so to speak. Am I been stupid?

Maybe slightly. If you need to get off, then get off. Do proper sex when you both have time and want to.

Masturbation is entirely normal, OP. Most people do it, and I would say most people consider it wholly separate from a sexual relationship.

If you needed to,why wouldn't you OP?

I dont see an issue personally

He should be cleaning up after himself but there is absolutely nothing wrong with him having a wank. And why are you denying yourself a bit of release? I would say that's abnormal tbh.

I am confused. What's the issue?

The stains? He needs to clean up after himself.

The wanking? Yes you are being a bit ridiculous.

He can wank when he wants a wank.just because you choose not too, doesnt mean he cant

Why don’t you take matters into your own hand?

All men wank. It's part of being a man. Stick a box of tissues by the bed.