Sorry I am going to go on a bit of a rant here and I am an overly sensitive person so may be being unreasonable but after having a baby 5 months ago I am not feeling great about myself and I feel my husband is making this worse. I feel like he should have more respect and appreciation for me after having his baby but he shows me no respect. He has been unemployed for a long time though he is starting a new job soon but he shows no respect for the fact I pay for everything and also he doesn't drive so I am always driving him about and making the effort to take us on nice days out as a family. I had a difficult pregnancy and worked so hard during it to provide for us while he moaned about being tired despite being at home all day every day. The way he speaks to me sometimes isso rude and he will do things such as deliberately walk on ahead with the pram knowing I'm not as fit as I was so can't walk that fast! Or he moaned and moaned the other day cos I had to go to the toilet at the station and couldn't wait the 5 minutes til his friends house (harder to do I find after childbirth but he doesn't appreciate that). Everything we do is based around his schedule and God forbid he misses a gym session! He spoke to me horribly today as I was yet again driving him to the gym. Any time I try to explain my feelings since having the baby he shuts me down straight away. He says I am just moody but again doesn't appreciate this is due to hormones being all over the place! He should be my support system but is making me feel worse about myself. What can I do other than leave him? He is a great dad and when he is being nice to me (which is a lot of the time despite my rant) then he is a good husband but I feel so unappreciated