What the hell is wrong with me?

[truebeliever]

Marriage ended due to xh cheating. Met a lovely man OLD and been together 18 months. I've just discovered he's been sending inappropriate messages on snapchat to women he follows on IG.
I thought he was different. I thought we had a future. I cant even confront him about it until tomorrow evening as I don't want a scene in front of my DC.

App posted in wrong topic. I've asked for this to be moved.

Nothings wrong with you ... it's him and the last bloke you was with ..... the right man will come along there not all like that

Hi, we're moving this thread over to our Relationships topic.

I'm devastated. Want to shout and rage at him but can't right now. Why can't I just have found a good one.

Sometimes people are good at masking their true self. Leave him as he will only cause you heartache and torment.

I'm so sorry OP. He's shown you who he really is here so listen to him. Don't take any of his bullshit either. In fact, I would just text him you know what he's doing so he's dumped, then block him immediately.
There is nothing wrong with you at all!! You've just sadly met another asshole - there are lots of them I'm afraid but they are not all like that.
Take a break from men for a while.

I wouldn't bother raging at him. He will just lie or turn it round on you. End it coldly by text.

Be thankful you found out early. It's not you. You can choose. Hold your head high, be clear about your standards, and move on. It's no disgrace - we can't know immediately that other people have interests that we think are horrid. You know what you want and it's not what you have now discovered. Maybe see if you can regard it as an experience rather than a disaster and not an indication that there is any lacking on your part or that you are a 'bad picker'. It's disappointing. You have found out... and you choose not to pick him as anyone permanent. 💐

It's not you! Some men are just total dicks and you were just unfortunate to have been with 2 in a row.
Do not blame yourself. It's their own egos and insecurities that make them cheat, nothing to do with you.

Sod it.
Just block and ignore and delete.
He doesn't even deserve an explanation.