I've been seeing a guy for a few months. He has spent a lot of time being sweet, told me he finds me beautiful, wonderful, I make him so happy, beautiful inside, so rare etc commented on how he will always think of me to certain songs we like etc.
He stayed over every weekend or I saw him at his place (divorced). So we were chatting by text and I asked if he saw us as being in a relationship. He said hes in love with me but is in a long distance relationship with someone else so only wants to see me as a friend.
I told him a dont want to see him anymore, but really gutted hes done this. Nothing had happened/changed, just last week he was telling me how much he missed me, how happy I make him etc. Why would someone do this? For sex? Ego? It feels really cruel, I'm pretty vulnerable and he knew that. I get the impression that if I was happy to then he would keep on seeing me, plus the other woman 