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Different sleeping requirements - aargh.

28 replies

Theaspidistraiswilting · 28/08/2019 21:41

So DH needs a totally dark, silent room and goes to bed 11.30 - midnight, gets up 9 - 10.

I need window open, prefer no curtains/blinds and go to bed 9.30 - 10 and get up 7am.

It’s becoming an issue. We are doomed aren’t we?

OP posts:
TowelNumber42 · 29/08/2019 17:12

Sleeping separately is normal. Do you cuddle a lot or have lots of sex when the last one gets to bed? How much actual intimacy would you lose by sleeping in separate rooms?

busybarbara · 29/08/2019 19:35

If you thrived as boyfriend and girlfriend in separate houses/flats entirely, you can thrive with separate bedrooms in the same house.

My DH only likes to go to bed to sleep. I like to relax, read, play on iPad, and, in an ideal world, watch TV.

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