We have been finished for 2 months, I have recently met a lovely guy who i've been out with a few times and finally feeling like I have moved on and so much better without the previous guy.
It had ended badly, he said some pretty hurtful stuff and called me so many names, whereas I hadn't really done anything other than want a relationship which he didn't.
We both have the same local, and I saw him in there Saturday. I am friendly with his friends and still chat to them as they are nice people.
The ex was there and I just ignored him initially but felt awkward being around him. I think all the names hurt me and I feel like I dont want to be around him at all.
In the end I went over and said that i had moved on, I would like to be on friendly terms as we were always in the same local but that he really hadnt been kind to me and I would like an apology for all the insults.
He told me, well honestly, if you had moved on you wouldn't be speaking to me right now, gave me an apology which didn't seem sincere and said, I don't want anything to do with you because that way there is less chance of things 'happening between us'.
I found it quite arrogant, he really believed that I was wanting something with him again. I didn't tell him about the other guy, I just dont want there to be this amniosity every time we bump into each other and that we can at least say Hi. He was very cold and didn't ask how i was or anything..
It now confirms that im much better off and happier without him.