We haven't even been married a year, but I'm sick of the way my husband treats me. He shouts at me all the time, and calls me anything under the sun. Today he's called me a 'fcking idiot' and a stupid cnt' . I have to deal with this on a daily basis. I do call him things back in a rage but he just gets worse. He shouts at me, gets up close in my face and pointing his finger when he does it.
Anything sets him off. I'm just sick of it.
We sleep in separate bedrooms, whenever we try to sleep together he starts shouting at me for turning or making noise breathing. We rarely have sex, he has erectile problems and can't ejaculate.
We never spend time together unless we are going to the supermarket. If I want to go out and spend a nice day together he tells me to just go myself, and that I shouldn't need him to entertain me. He spends his evenings and weekends watching tv series or films on his computer in his room. He does no exercise and is eating junk food everyday, putting on weight before my eyes. We never sit together and eat dinner or watch telly.
I'm miserable but see no way out. We have a mortgage together, and I can't afford to live alone anywhere around here. I have no family or friends that I could stay with. I've resigned myself to just being unhappy and taking every day as it comes, and having more of a 'housemate' relationship with him. It's just bloody depressing 