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Jowd92 · 26/08/2019 10:12

Okay so this is long... back in January my dp decided to stay out late drinking after work one night and this ended up in a massive row after I was sat at home.waiting for him he ignored my messages and calls then turned up early hours very drunk I had a very strange feeling and gut instinct told me to check his phone I did and found a nude photo of a girl no head in picture I confront him he reassured me it was nothing and that it was a girl.from work had sent it he says he never asked for the picture or even messaged her we have a son together 1 and I'm.currenrly 22 weeks pregnant shock pregnancy, anyway his brother has now started dating this girl at work and I was asked.to put it behind me which I out right said no as I'm.still very angry this nearly ruined our family but then turns out now apparently I've been lied to for all these months as apparently it wasnt her now I tried to talk to him yesterday but he was at work.then even after work he decided it was more important to go to the pub drinking then it was to.come home and talk and sort things I'm so upset angry and feel betrayed I'm still none the wiser and really dont know what to do his got up and gone off to work nothing said also his mom.his obv sticking up for him asking why I feel the need to question everything to which I said I dont like being lied to I dont deserve it and I dont deserve to be treated like a mug either:(

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SignedUpJust4This · 26/08/2019 10:25

There's lies here somewhere. Either something is going on with those 2 and his brother doesn't know. Or his scummy brother sent the pic to your dp or its not her at all and your dp is seeing someone else. Possibly a professional

SignedUpJust4This · 26/08/2019 10:27

Either way he sounds like a cunt. You found that on his phone. He should be crawling round on his hands and knees trying to prove he's trustworthy. Not treating you like a doormat. He has no respect for you. Get rid.

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