Please help me unbreak my marriage

[HalyardHitch]

I'm dreading September. I go back to work (four evenings a week 4pm-9pm) and dh goes back to uni (he works and studies during the day, lectures are two weekends a month, on the day I don't work midweek he is home after bed time). We have a one year old and a two year old.

The gulf between us is so vast. I'm resentful of the lack of support. But I think it's me and my issues just feeling alone and abandoned. Dh is fed up of me getting grumpy with him that even valid issues he shuts me down and gets annoyed. I don't think I'm good at expressing myself.

I just want to spend my evenings away from him watching telly upstairs. This to me is a scary development. I don't want to lose my husband.

I'm fed up of life, exhausted and just can't see the wood through the trees. My marriage won't last much longer if we don't do something

Its not crazy at all, finding ways to reconnect is exactly how you fix this. I bought a stereo and dug out all our old CD's (I was looking for ways to have 'date nights' without needing a babysitter!) and it meant we talked instead of staring at the TV and not speaking. I hope it all goes well tonight and that this is the start of things getting better for you