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Feel dumped . I know I ABU :(

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justamum15 · 24/08/2019 20:24

I know I am being very unreasonable but these are my feelings. My sister is my best friend and she is moving away to live with her new boyfriend.

I am really happy for her as she's not been happy living where we live. She says where she is going is much better than where we live and that people are so much more friendly than they are around here. I just feel hurt because it feels so personal. Like she thinks our relationship is not worth anything. It is hard to make friends here but I think it would be anywhere - I try my best to be friendly with people here and I am slowly making a few new friends (I've recently had become a mum).

I've been crying for a few nights now. I am also pre menstrual so it's not helping. I'm just looking for some sympathy really or someone that's been through the same thing and are now happy.

I am really happy for her I just feel dumped. I don't want her to leave her boyfriend or anything like that obviously. I just feel heartbroken because I genuinely believed/believe she is my best friend.

OP posts:
crapcrap · 24/08/2019 20:29

My sister is my best friend- and last year I moved away from her and it was so hard. Saying goodbye was always the hardest- I moved a two hour drive and a ferry journey away so it was tough.
Butttt it does get easier and it's good you have a little one (I do too, and my sister sores over her massively)
definitely try to make new friends, keep busy and don't beat yourself up.
I moved and I sobbed loads and felt ridiculously homesick.
Try to keep busy and try to remember she'll always be there.
Hope things get easier for you Thanks

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