Been seeing a guy I met online for about 8 months. We broke up for about a month early on as he had a major health scare but got back together & everything was fine. We get on great, have fun & great sex so that's all good. We're both in our 50s & I've been on my own a long time so I'm not sure what to expect but I'm wondering about a few things. He's very private & I understand that but we were together a few weeks ago & met a work colleague of his. He didn't introduce me but said later if the colleague asked he would say I was his cousin. I was quite hurt by this. We both have kids, he's met mine (teenagers) but I haven't met his although they know about me. He's been talking about their plans for holidays next year & I'm not included. I don't really feel he sees me as a long term partner but not sure whether to wait & see or cut my losses now