angry stressy husband

[SpagBowl99]

Angry stressy husband. He blames anger and frustration tiredness or stress. Am I allowed to have had enough? Anyone else have this?

If I complain it gets thrown back at me that I do the same....so does this mean I have to put up with it?

You don't have to put up with anything. 💐

No you don’t. My Dh of 22 years, was like that for a time. He was under a huge amount of stress but I’d had enough.
I told him we were separating, he asked if he went to counselling would I give him another chance.
I agreed and he went and got help. It really did help and he learnt where his anger was coming from (abusive childhood) and how to deal with it.

Would your H get help?

Thanks JustMuddling.

Thanks for sharing Lizzie, a good idea. I just keep threatening him with separation at the moment, but the actual deed of just feels like such mountain that I only threaten and he throws back comments about my behaviour.

I was just thinking that I might try counselling for me to help me get it all straight in my head...to figure it all out. That is an idea for him too...

And superiority complex and calls names. Not as bad as some tho..thinking about divorce everyother day at least...

And superiority complex and calls names.

Gosh that's a lot more than 'angry and stressy'.

It's a great idea for you to go and get some counselling, to get your head straight, plus he will see that you mean business, rather than just threatening.

You definitely need to take action now, however works for you.

And stop making empty threats until you are in a position to carry them out, otherwise you're just giving him more power.