Please or to access all these features

Add post

Watch this thread

Save thread

Start a new thread

Flip thread

Hide thread

My feed

Active Unanswered threads

Getting started FAQ's

Unanswered threads Acronyms Talk guidelines

Hide shortcut buttons

Talk

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Flip

Original poster

Fancy another guy

4 replies

Durexdoggy · 23/08/2019 20:38

Been with DP for 4 years and for the last year or maybe less I’ve been on and off about how I feel about him.

He doesn’t always treat me that well but I keep giving him second (or 10th) chances.

Some days I really love him but other days, I just wish I was single.

However I feel like I’m just not ready to let go. We’ve been through a lot together and have grown up together.

But recently in the last few months, I’ve been thinking a lot about another man.
Me and this man had a ‘fling’ just before DP and I got together although it never amounted to anything more than just flirting!

Can anyone help kick my arse into gear

OP posts:

Original poster

Durexdoggy · 23/08/2019 20:43

I’m not sure what advice I’m looking for really but anything would be helpful

OP posts:

CursedDiamond · 23/08/2019 20:46

I’m not sure flirting really counts as a fling. Speak to your DP about your relationship. I didn’t. Now it’s unbelievably complicated. Don’t be me.

Olikingcharles · 23/08/2019 22:09

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

CatPunsFreakMeowt · 24/08/2019 08:45

Put the other man out of your mind. You need to decide what to do about your relationship with a clear head. There’s nothing to say this other man would want more than a fling so don’t factor him into your decision making.

Flip