I am fuming right now and am seriously thinking that what has just happened signals the end of my marriage, 12yrs married, 2DC. To be fair we have had our share of problems throughout, he is very closed emotionally and I have mental health problems, which, at their height cause a lot of paranoia. Anyway, back to tonight's problem, he was giving our DS's a haircut, he's very good with the hair clippers, we're not talking cutting round a bowl. Eldest DS specifically did not want his hair short, he wanted to keep his curls, he is 10, he is sensitive, he is under CaHMS for anxiety. I went to bath youngest DS, elder DS hair was looking lovely, just as he had wanted it, I praised DH, DS10 all smiley, all was good, off to bath we go. Imagine my shock when I return from said bath and DS10 hair has all but bloody gone! I am fuming! Am I wrong to be?! DS is very upset. DH claims he didn't specify what he wanted, bullshit, DS has been putting off having his hair cut for weeks because he did not want it short, he bloody knew alright. Anyway, I've had a go at DH, basically about DS having his own identity, which he is actually struggling with, but that's a whole other thread.
I just don't know if I can live with this person anymore, maybe I just need to calm down.
I have considered separating more times than I can blimmin count, am I daft in letting this incident be the straw that breaks the camel's back, as it were.