Hi, excuse the long thread but just gaining opinions on this.
I've been in a relationship with oh for 18mths, started out just as fun but grew and now we've just come back from a holiday with the kids (1for me & 1 oh) kids have been involved for the last 6mths
His parents have some health issues and mum is due to have a operation...anyway long story short his mother contacted an ex gf of his to tell them about her op (they met through his mum) next ex-gf called at mums house with her 2 daughters, next thing ex gf has invited oh's daughter to a play date tomorrow.....they broke up just before we got together.
I'm having real issues with this as while I know the girls got on, it's been a long time since they're been together so I wonder why start something now. Oh says it's just a one off but that makes no sense to me, 🤷♀️
Oh tells me that he has no interest in ex and has told her as such but I'm still stressing over this.
I don't want to come across as a bitch and stop his daughter reconnecting with a friend but it just doesn't sit right? Am I over thinking?